Dealing With Your Ex-Boyfriend.

After you break up with a guy, there is a period of loneliness. Not only are you missing the time that you spent with him, but there is also a piece of your heart that walked out the door when he did, most especially your first love. If you are saying “I miss my ex boyfriend,” here are some ways to get past the feeling.

There are two steps to getting over an ex. The first is to bring closure to the relationship and the second is to start on the next phase of your life.

Closure is the psychological term for ending a phase of one’s life. There are many things you can do to stop saying “I miss my ex boyfriend.”

First of all, you should determine that he doesn’t want you back or you don't want him either. As long as you think that there is a chance you can get back together,am afraid your wound will not be healed.

To that end, exchange all of the physical possessions you have. Don’t keep his toothbrush in your bathroom or hold on to his mobile phone. If you have left clothes or other possessions at his house, pick them up.

If either of you owes the other money, pay it back as soon as possible. 

Don’t contact him and don’t let him contact you. If you give in and answer his phone calls, emails, or texts, you are just letting a wound fester.

But in a situation that you had a child for him,it's up to you to know if you still loves him.The circumstances that lead to the breakup should be put into consideration and that will help you decide on your next move. Some will come in order to give you more heartbreaks and then leave you to die or commit suicide. Always be careful and study him closely to know when he comes for amendment or to destroy totally. 

I believe with every ex there will be an emotional and physical attraction to that person,so it will be wise not to be intimately connected with him anymore. I would have to say,you should stay in a public place when meeting each other,and do not let him or yourself talk prefer to go somewhere a little more discreet and quiet.

If you are already in a new relationship and you are happy with that,take the first advice and erase your first boyfriend from your memory as stated above. Never give him room to destroy your new found love.